{"id":239,"date":"2021-04-28T12:20:00","date_gmt":"2021-04-28T12:20:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/?p=239"},"modified":"2024-03-29T12:37:47","modified_gmt":"2024-03-29T12:37:47","slug":"ritualy-nemusi-byt-ezo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/?p=239","title":{"rendered":"Ritu\u00e1ly nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt ezo"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kdy\u017e se \u0159ekne ritu\u00e1l, m\u016f\u017ee se mnoha lidem vybavit obr\u00e1zek n\u011bjak\u00fdch &#8222;ezo&#8220; lid\u00ed v kruhu s bubnov\u00e1n\u00edm, p\u00e1len\u00edm ty\u010dinek, zp\u011bvem a t\u0159eba divok\u00fdm tancem. Ritu\u00e1l ale nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt takov\u00fd. Vnit\u0159n\u011b jsem to c\u00edtila a pak kdy\u017e se mi dostala do ruky kniha\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/smartpress.cz\/obchod\/tradinar\/\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/smartpress.cz\/obchod\/tradinar\/\">Tradin\u00e1\u0159<\/a>, jen mi srdce nad\u0161en\u00edm zaplesalo.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ritu\u00e1l m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt rodinn\u00fd zvyk, tradice, speci\u00e1ln\u00ed den nebo \u010d\u00e1st dne, kter\u00fd tr\u00e1v\u00edme spole\u010dn\u011b ur\u010dit\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem a tento zvyk pak opakujeme, opatrujeme a t\u011b\u0161\u00edme se z n\u011bj. Oslavit n\u011bjakou speci\u00e1ln\u00ed ud\u00e1lost nebo n\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivotn\u00ed miln\u00edk je n\u011bco, co m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt tak\u00e9 podobu ritu\u00e1lu. Tedy t\u00edm, \u017ee oslav\u011b dod\u00e1me n\u011bjakou&nbsp;<strong>strukturu a z\u00e1m\u011br<\/strong>&nbsp;a nen\u00ed to jen such\u00e9 setk\u00e1n\u00ed nad j\u00eddlem a pit\u00edm.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">U\u017e v minulosti m\u011b l\u00e1kalo m\u00edt ritu\u00e1l na\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/?p=151\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"151\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">rozlu\u010dce se svobodou<\/a>. M\u011bla jsem ho nakonec nejen j\u00e1, ale i dal\u0161\u00ed m\u00e9 kamar\u00e1dky, kter\u00fdm se tento n\u00e1pad taky l\u00edbil.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nen\u00ed proto ur\u010dit\u011b p\u0159ekvapen\u00ed, \u017ee jsem ritu\u00e1l cht\u011bla p\u0159ed porodem a tak\u00e9 po porodu. Vn\u00edmala jsem&nbsp;<strong>posiluj\u00edc\u00ed efekt m\u00e9ho z\u00e1m\u011bru<\/strong>&nbsp;a tak\u00e9 jsem m\u011bla pocit, \u017ee se t\u00edm n\u00e1\u0161 porod tak n\u011bjak cel\u00fd posv\u011bt\u00ed. Ritu\u00e1lem po porodu se naopak porod uzav\u0159e a vstoup\u00edm naplno do nov\u00e9 role maminky.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"http:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/DSC_3885-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-306\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/DSC_3885-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/DSC_3885-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/DSC_3885-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/DSC_3885-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/DSC_3885-2048x1367.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/DSC_3885-1140x761.jpg 1140w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">P\u0159edporodn\u00ed ritu\u00e1l<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">P\u0159edporodn\u00ed ritu\u00e1l<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pro veden\u00ed p\u0159edporodn\u00edho ritu\u00e1lu jsem po\u017e\u00e1dala moji kamar\u00e1dku. Spole\u010dn\u011b jsme se domluvily na tom, co do ritu\u00e1lu zahrnout. Zm\u00ednily jsme&nbsp;<strong>\u010dty\u0159i \u017eivly<\/strong>&nbsp;a s ka\u017edou charakteristikou \u017eivlu jsme probraly jedno t\u00e9ma.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Element Vzduchu<\/strong>&nbsp;p\u0159edstavuje na\u0161i minulost a rodovou linii. Vzpom\u00ednaly jsme tedy s ostatn\u00edmi \u017eenami na to, jak\u00fd porod byl pro na\u0161e m\u00e1my, babi\u010dky i dal\u0161\u00ed \u017eeny.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Element Ohn\u011b<\/strong>&nbsp;je ide\u00e1ln\u00ed pro sp\u00e1len\u00ed v\u0161ech strach\u016f a obav. Obavy m\u016f\u017eeme i napsat na pap\u00edr a opravdu pap\u00edr sp\u00e1lit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na&nbsp;<strong>elementu Vody<\/strong>&nbsp;m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159iplout p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed pro porod, st\u00e1v\u00e1 se pak sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed n\u00e1s, pokud vodu vypijeme. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 z m\u00fdch kamar\u00e1dek tedy do poh\u00e1ru s vodou po\u0161eptala sv\u00e9 p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed pro m\u011b a j\u00e1 jsem pak poh\u00e1r p\u0159ijala a vypila jej.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Element Zem\u011b<\/strong>&nbsp;m\u00e1 pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed charakter. \u017deny v m\u00e9m kruhu m\u011b s p\u00e9\u010d\u00ed u\u010desaly a na b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ko mi namalovaly obr\u00e1zek (nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed d\u00edlek m\u011bla&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.angelinamadrova.cz\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Angel\u00ednka<\/a>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"http:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/DSC_3909-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-305\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/DSC_3909-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/DSC_3909-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/DSC_3909-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/DSC_3909-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/DSC_3909-2048x1367.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/DSC_3909-1140x761.jpg 1140w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Malov\u00e1n\u00ed na t\u011bhotensk\u00e9 b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ko<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Posledn\u00ed \u010d\u00e1st\u00ed byl&nbsp;<strong>labyrint<\/strong>, p\u0159i vstupu do labyrintu jsem odevzdala p\u0159edm\u011bt, kter\u00fd pro m\u011b znamenal svobodn\u00fd \u017eivot \u017eeny a na konci labyrintu byl nachyst\u00e1n d\u00e1rek pro m\u011b jako m\u00e1mu. Proch\u00e1zen\u00ed labyrintem ve m\u011b vyvol\u00e1valo zaj\u00edmav\u00e9 pocity a bylo opravdu kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 si zv\u011bdomit, jestli se c\u00edt\u00edm p\u0159ipraven\u00e1 na ten hlubok\u00fd transforma\u010dn\u00ed z\u00e1\u017eitek, kter\u00fdm porod je.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na z\u00e1v\u011br jsme si s kamar\u00e1dkami samoz\u0159ejm\u011b dop\u0159\u00e1ly dobr\u00e9 j\u00eddlo a z\u00e1kusky (mimo jin\u00e9 mnou velmi obl\u00edben\u00e9&nbsp;<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blueveganpigshop.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">vegansk\u00e9 kobl\u00ed\u017eky<\/a>&nbsp;\ud83d\ude42 Pov\u00eddaly jsme u \u010daje a sd\u00edlely. A to m\u00e1m hodn\u011b r\u00e1da.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/?page_id=21\" data-type=\"page\" data-id=\"21\">Sd\u00edlen\u00ed \u017een<\/a>&nbsp;m\u011b pro porod pos\u00edlilo, byla jsem nabit\u00e1 energi\u00ed nejen j\u00e1, tak\u00e9 celou m\u00edstnost, kde se ritu\u00e1l konal, doslova prostoupila \u017eensk\u00e1 energie.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A jak po porodu?&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Porod s\u00e1m o sob\u011b byl \u00fapln\u011b jin\u00fd, ne\u017e jsem si myslela i p\u0159edstavovala nebo dok\u00e1zala p\u0159edstavit. A je to pr\u00fd celkem norm\u00e1ln\u00ed. Cel\u00fd \u010dl\u00e1nek o m\u00e9m porodu je\u0161t\u011b chyst\u00e1m.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">U\u017e p\u0159ed porodem jsem se dozv\u011bd\u011bla o ritu\u00e1lu zavinov\u00e1n\u00ed kost\u00ed. Ze za\u010d\u00e1tku jsem si \u00fapln\u011b nemyslela, \u017ee ho budu pot\u0159ebovat, ale jo&#8230; Minim\u00e1ln\u011b se z porodu opravdu vypov\u00eddat jsem pot\u0159ebovala. Ale jen o tom tento ritu\u00e1l nen\u00ed.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ritu\u00e1l zavinov\u00e1n\u00ed kost\u00ed<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na doporu\u010den\u00ed sv\u00e9 lakta\u010dn\u00ed poradkyn\u011b jsem oslovila na ritu\u00e1l&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.jananemeckova.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Janu<\/a>. Nejd\u0159\u00edve jsme se telefonicky pobavily o tom, co bych pot\u0159ebovala a jak v\u0161echno vn\u00edm\u00e1m. Jana mi poslala emailem soubor, ve kter\u00e9m bylo pops\u00e1no, co v\u0161echno m\u016f\u017ee ritu\u00e1l zahrnovat.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ritu\u00e1l zavinov\u00e1n\u00ed kost\u00ed lze prov\u00e9st po ukon\u010den\u00e9m \u0161estined\u011bl\u00ed a tak\u00e9 kdykoliv pot\u00e9. Z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na pocitu \u017eeny, kdy si chce sv\u00e9 t\u00e9ma porodu nebo i n\u011b\u010deho jin\u00e9ho zpracovat a uzav\u0159\u00edt. Ritu\u00e1l m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt individu\u00e1ln\u00ed nebo ve spole\u010dnosti ostatn\u00edch \u017een, p\u0159\u00edtelky\u0148, matky, babi\u010dky apod. J\u00e1 jsem zvolila mo\u017enost m\u00edt Janu jen pro sebe a opravdu spo\u010dinout v hojiv\u00e9 \u017eensk\u00e9 energii.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po celou dobu ritu\u00e1lu se man\u017eel staral o na\u0161eho synka a je\u0161t\u011b uva\u0159il, abych m\u011bla opravdu prostor pro sebe a z\u00e1rove\u0148 n\u011bco kvalitn\u00edho do b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ka. Miminko mi nosil jen na kojen\u00ed.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S Janou jsme za\u010daly ritu\u00e1l vy\u010di\u0161t\u011bn\u00edm prostoru. Ona nachystala v\u0161echny pot\u0159ebn\u00e9 v\u011bci, abych m\u011bla maxim\u00e1ln\u00ed pohodl\u00ed. O tom to je hodn\u011b, najednou se \u010dertv\u00e1 m\u00e1ma m\u016f\u017ee polo\u017eit do&nbsp;<strong>p\u0159ij\u00edmaj\u00edc\u00ed role<\/strong>. M\u011bla jsem&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.steamy.cz\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">bylinnou nap\u00e1\u0159ku<\/a>. Sd\u00edlela jsem sv\u016fj porodn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. S t\u00edm samoz\u0159ejm\u011b tak\u00e9 v\u0161echny pochybnosti i strachy, radosti i nejistoty, kter\u00e9 \u010derstv\u00e1 maminka m\u016f\u017ee c\u00edtit.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po nap\u00e1\u0159ce jsem si dop\u0159\u00e1la mas\u00e1\u017e bylinn\u00fdmi m\u011b\u0161ci, do kter\u00fdch jsem bylinky sama vyb\u00edrala. U\u017e to byla velk\u00e1 slast. Nechat se mas\u00e1\u017e\u00ed opravdu ope\u010dovat.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/7ec0652b-d8f4-4395-88cd-58ad78c6aa8c-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-307\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/7ec0652b-d8f4-4395-88cd-58ad78c6aa8c-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/7ec0652b-d8f4-4395-88cd-58ad78c6aa8c-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/7ec0652b-d8f4-4395-88cd-58ad78c6aa8c-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/7ec0652b-d8f4-4395-88cd-58ad78c6aa8c-1140x1520.jpg 1140w, https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/7ec0652b-d8f4-4395-88cd-58ad78c6aa8c.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">P\u0159\u00edprava bylinn\u00fdch m\u011b\u0161c\u016f<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Zavinut\u00ed jako zakuklen\u00ed<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zavinov\u00e1n\u00ed kost\u00ed spo\u010d\u00edv\u00e1 v magick\u00e9m zavinut\u00ed do sedmi \u0161\u00e1tk\u016f. C\u00edtila jsem se pak jako p\u011bkn\u011b zakukl\u00e9n\u00e1 larva :). Chvilku jsem si jako larva pro\u017eila ten stav, \u017ee nic nemus\u00edm a pomalu mnou prostupovaly z\u00e1\u017eitky z cel\u00e9ho ope\u010dov\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Mo\u017en\u00e1 jsem i na chv\u00edli usla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A pak jsem usly\u0161ela ve vedlej\u0161\u00ed m\u00edstnosti broukat na\u0161eho syna. To byl moment, kter\u00fd bych p\u0159\u00e1la za\u017e\u00edt ka\u017ed\u00e9mu. T\u011b\u017eko popsateln\u00fd pocit bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u00e9 l\u00e1sky se mi rozproudil cel\u00fdm t\u011blem, \u010d\u00edm v\u00edc syn broukal, t\u00edm v\u00edce jsem l\u00e1sku c\u00edtila. Pomalu jsem se rozbalovala z \u0161\u00e1tk\u016f. Jako mot\u00fdl z kukly.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ritu\u00e1ly v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vypad\u00e1 to, \u017ee ritu\u00e1ly z\u00edsk\u00e1vaj\u00ed pevn\u00e9 m\u00edsto v m\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b. L\u00edb\u00ed se mi hodn\u011b. Nejen pro tyto speci\u00e1ln\u00ed ud\u00e1losti jako je rozlu\u010dka se svobodou a porod. Je kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 m\u00edt n\u011bjak\u00e9&nbsp;<strong>osobn\u00ed a rodinn\u00e9 ritu\u00e1ly<\/strong>. Vn\u00edm\u00e1m, \u017ee n\u00e1m pak tolik ty roky \u017eivota neproklouz\u00e1v\u00e1j\u00ed mezi prsty a \u017eijeme v\u00edc na plno. V p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00e9m okam\u017eiku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S l\u00e1skou Propojen\u00e1<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u011bkuji za spolupr\u00e1ci s Nakladatelstv\u00edm\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.smartpress.cz\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Smartpress<\/a>. Poskytlo mi pr\u00e1v\u011b rodinn\u00fdmi ritu\u00e1ly pro\u0161pikovanou knihu\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/smartpress.cz\/obchod\/tradinar\/?gad_source=1&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjwzZmwBhD8ARIsAH4v1gUne75fIwy0d_yTZqGILPYXdCtwL0u9nEC4XlSbgAbWguYn3pcmrCsaAh7oEALw_wcB\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/smartpress.cz\/obchod\/tradinar\/?gad_source=1&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjwzZmwBhD8ARIsAH4v1gUne75fIwy0d_yTZqGILPYXdCtwL0u9nEC4XlSbgAbWguYn3pcmrCsaAh7oEALw_wcB\">Tradin\u00e1\u0159<\/a>, kter\u00e1 je velmi inspirativn\u00ed a \u010derp\u00e1m z n\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u011bs\u00edc.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kdy\u017e se \u0159ekne ritu\u00e1l, m\u016f\u017ee se mnoha lidem vybavit obr\u00e1zek n\u011bjak\u00fdch &#8222;ezo&#8220; lid\u00ed v kruhu s bubnov\u00e1n\u00edm, p\u00e1len\u00edm ty\u010dinek, zp\u011bvem a t\u0159eba divok\u00fdm tancem. Ritu\u00e1l ale nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt takov\u00fd. Vnit\u0159n\u011b jsem to c\u00edtila a pak kdy\u017e se mi dostala do ruky kniha\u00a0Tradin\u00e1\u0159, jen mi srdce nad\u0161en\u00edm zaplesalo.\u00a0 Ritu\u00e1l m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt rodinn\u00fd zvyk, tradice, speci\u00e1ln\u00ed den nebo \u010d\u00e1st dne, kter\u00fd tr\u00e1v\u00edme spole\u010dn\u011b ur\u010dit\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem a tento zvyk pak opakujeme, opatrujeme a t\u011b\u0161\u00edme se z n\u011bj. Oslavit n\u011bjakou speci\u00e1ln\u00ed ud\u00e1lost nebo n\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivotn\u00ed miln\u00edk je n\u011bco, co m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt tak\u00e9 podobu ritu\u00e1lu. Tedy t\u00edm, \u017ee oslav\u011b dod\u00e1me n\u011bjakou&nbsp;strukturu a z\u00e1m\u011br&nbsp;a nen\u00ed to jen such\u00e9 setk\u00e1n\u00ed nad j\u00eddlem a pit\u00edm.&nbsp; U\u017e v minulosti m\u011b l\u00e1kalo m\u00edt ritu\u00e1l na\u00a0rozlu\u010dce se svobodou. M\u011bla jsem ho nakonec nejen j\u00e1, ale i dal\u0161\u00ed m\u00e9 kamar\u00e1dky, kter\u00fdm se tento n\u00e1pad taky l\u00edbil.\u00a0 Nen\u00ed proto ur\u010dit\u011b p\u0159ekvapen\u00ed, \u017ee jsem ritu\u00e1l cht\u011bla p\u0159ed porodem a tak\u00e9 po porodu. Vn\u00edmala jsem&nbsp;posiluj\u00edc\u00ed efekt m\u00e9ho z\u00e1m\u011bru&nbsp;a tak\u00e9 jsem m\u011bla pocit, \u017ee se t\u00edm n\u00e1\u0161 porod tak n\u011bjak cel\u00fd posv\u011bt\u00ed. Ritu\u00e1lem po porodu se naopak porod uzav\u0159e a vstoup\u00edm naplno do nov\u00e9 role maminky.&nbsp; P\u0159edporodn\u00ed ritu\u00e1l Pro veden\u00ed p\u0159edporodn\u00edho ritu\u00e1lu jsem po\u017e\u00e1dala moji kamar\u00e1dku. Spole\u010dn\u011b jsme se domluvily na tom, co do ritu\u00e1lu zahrnout. Zm\u00ednily jsme&nbsp;\u010dty\u0159i \u017eivly&nbsp;a s ka\u017edou charakteristikou \u017eivlu jsme probraly jedno t\u00e9ma.&nbsp; Element Vzduchu&nbsp;p\u0159edstavuje na\u0161i minulost a rodovou linii. Vzpom\u00ednaly jsme tedy s ostatn\u00edmi \u017eenami na to, jak\u00fd porod byl pro na\u0161e m\u00e1my, babi\u010dky i dal\u0161\u00ed \u017eeny.&nbsp; Element Ohn\u011b&nbsp;je ide\u00e1ln\u00ed pro sp\u00e1len\u00ed v\u0161ech strach\u016f a obav. Obavy m\u016f\u017eeme i napsat na pap\u00edr a opravdu pap\u00edr sp\u00e1lit. Na&nbsp;elementu Vody&nbsp;m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159iplout p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed pro porod, st\u00e1v\u00e1 se pak sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed n\u00e1s, pokud vodu vypijeme. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 z m\u00fdch kamar\u00e1dek tedy do poh\u00e1ru s vodou po\u0161eptala sv\u00e9 p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed pro m\u011b a j\u00e1 jsem pak poh\u00e1r p\u0159ijala a vypila jej.&nbsp; Element Zem\u011b&nbsp;m\u00e1 pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed charakter. \u017deny v m\u00e9m kruhu m\u011b s p\u00e9\u010d\u00ed u\u010desaly a na b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ko mi namalovaly obr\u00e1zek (nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed d\u00edlek m\u011bla&nbsp;Angel\u00ednka). Posledn\u00ed \u010d\u00e1st\u00ed byl&nbsp;labyrint, p\u0159i vstupu do labyrintu jsem odevzdala p\u0159edm\u011bt, kter\u00fd pro m\u011b znamenal svobodn\u00fd \u017eivot \u017eeny a na konci labyrintu byl nachyst\u00e1n d\u00e1rek pro m\u011b jako m\u00e1mu. Proch\u00e1zen\u00ed labyrintem ve m\u011b vyvol\u00e1valo zaj\u00edmav\u00e9 pocity a bylo opravdu kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 si zv\u011bdomit, jestli se c\u00edt\u00edm p\u0159ipraven\u00e1 na ten hlubok\u00fd transforma\u010dn\u00ed z\u00e1\u017eitek, kter\u00fdm porod je.&nbsp; Na z\u00e1v\u011br jsme si s kamar\u00e1dkami samoz\u0159ejm\u011b dop\u0159\u00e1ly dobr\u00e9 j\u00eddlo a z\u00e1kusky (mimo jin\u00e9 mnou velmi obl\u00edben\u00e9&nbsp;vegansk\u00e9 kobl\u00ed\u017eky&nbsp;\ud83d\ude42 Pov\u00eddaly jsme u \u010daje a sd\u00edlely. A to m\u00e1m hodn\u011b r\u00e1da.&nbsp;Sd\u00edlen\u00ed \u017een&nbsp;m\u011b pro porod pos\u00edlilo, byla jsem nabit\u00e1 energi\u00ed nejen j\u00e1, tak\u00e9 celou m\u00edstnost, kde se ritu\u00e1l konal, doslova prostoupila \u017eensk\u00e1 energie.&nbsp; A jak po porodu?&nbsp; Porod s\u00e1m o sob\u011b byl \u00fapln\u011b jin\u00fd, ne\u017e jsem si myslela i p\u0159edstavovala nebo dok\u00e1zala p\u0159edstavit. A je to pr\u00fd celkem norm\u00e1ln\u00ed. Cel\u00fd \u010dl\u00e1nek o m\u00e9m porodu je\u0161t\u011b chyst\u00e1m.&nbsp; U\u017e p\u0159ed porodem jsem se dozv\u011bd\u011bla o ritu\u00e1lu zavinov\u00e1n\u00ed kost\u00ed. Ze za\u010d\u00e1tku jsem si \u00fapln\u011b nemyslela, \u017ee ho budu pot\u0159ebovat, ale jo&#8230; Minim\u00e1ln\u011b se z porodu opravdu vypov\u00eddat jsem pot\u0159ebovala. Ale jen o tom tento ritu\u00e1l nen\u00ed.&nbsp; Ritu\u00e1l zavinov\u00e1n\u00ed kost\u00ed Na doporu\u010den\u00ed sv\u00e9 lakta\u010dn\u00ed poradkyn\u011b jsem oslovila na ritu\u00e1l&nbsp;Janu. Nejd\u0159\u00edve jsme se telefonicky pobavily o tom, co bych pot\u0159ebovala a jak v\u0161echno vn\u00edm\u00e1m. Jana mi poslala emailem soubor, ve kter\u00e9m bylo pops\u00e1no, co v\u0161echno m\u016f\u017ee ritu\u00e1l zahrnovat.&nbsp; Ritu\u00e1l zavinov\u00e1n\u00ed kost\u00ed lze prov\u00e9st po ukon\u010den\u00e9m \u0161estined\u011bl\u00ed a tak\u00e9 kdykoliv pot\u00e9. Z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na pocitu \u017eeny, kdy si chce sv\u00e9 t\u00e9ma porodu nebo i n\u011b\u010deho jin\u00e9ho zpracovat a uzav\u0159\u00edt. Ritu\u00e1l m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt individu\u00e1ln\u00ed nebo ve spole\u010dnosti ostatn\u00edch \u017een, p\u0159\u00edtelky\u0148, matky, babi\u010dky apod. J\u00e1 jsem zvolila mo\u017enost m\u00edt Janu jen pro sebe a opravdu spo\u010dinout v hojiv\u00e9 \u017eensk\u00e9 energii.&nbsp; Po celou dobu ritu\u00e1lu se man\u017eel staral o na\u0161eho synka a je\u0161t\u011b uva\u0159il, abych m\u011bla opravdu prostor pro sebe a z\u00e1rove\u0148 n\u011bco kvalitn\u00edho do b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ka. Miminko mi nosil jen na kojen\u00ed.&nbsp; S Janou jsme za\u010daly ritu\u00e1l vy\u010di\u0161t\u011bn\u00edm prostoru. Ona nachystala v\u0161echny pot\u0159ebn\u00e9 v\u011bci, abych m\u011bla maxim\u00e1ln\u00ed pohodl\u00ed. O tom to je hodn\u011b, najednou se \u010dertv\u00e1 m\u00e1ma m\u016f\u017ee polo\u017eit do&nbsp;p\u0159ij\u00edmaj\u00edc\u00ed role. M\u011bla jsem&nbsp;bylinnou nap\u00e1\u0159ku. Sd\u00edlela jsem sv\u016fj porodn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. S t\u00edm samoz\u0159ejm\u011b tak\u00e9 v\u0161echny pochybnosti i strachy, radosti i nejistoty, kter\u00e9 \u010derstv\u00e1 maminka m\u016f\u017ee c\u00edtit.&nbsp; Po nap\u00e1\u0159ce jsem si dop\u0159\u00e1la mas\u00e1\u017e bylinn\u00fdmi m\u011b\u0161ci, do kter\u00fdch jsem bylinky sama vyb\u00edrala. U\u017e to byla velk\u00e1 slast. Nechat se mas\u00e1\u017e\u00ed opravdu ope\u010dovat.&nbsp; Zavinut\u00ed jako zakuklen\u00ed Zavinov\u00e1n\u00ed kost\u00ed spo\u010d\u00edv\u00e1 v magick\u00e9m zavinut\u00ed do sedmi \u0161\u00e1tk\u016f. C\u00edtila jsem se pak jako p\u011bkn\u011b zakukl\u00e9n\u00e1 larva :). Chvilku jsem si jako larva pro\u017eila ten stav, \u017ee nic nemus\u00edm a pomalu mnou prostupovaly z\u00e1\u017eitky z cel\u00e9ho ope\u010dov\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Mo\u017en\u00e1 jsem i na chv\u00edli usla. A pak jsem usly\u0161ela ve vedlej\u0161\u00ed m\u00edstnosti broukat na\u0161eho syna. To byl moment, kter\u00fd bych p\u0159\u00e1la za\u017e\u00edt ka\u017ed\u00e9mu. T\u011b\u017eko popsateln\u00fd pocit bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u00e9 l\u00e1sky se mi rozproudil cel\u00fdm t\u011blem, \u010d\u00edm v\u00edc syn broukal, t\u00edm v\u00edce jsem l\u00e1sku c\u00edtila. Pomalu jsem se rozbalovala z \u0161\u00e1tk\u016f. Jako mot\u00fdl z kukly.&nbsp; Ritu\u00e1ly v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b Vypad\u00e1 to, \u017ee ritu\u00e1ly z\u00edsk\u00e1vaj\u00ed pevn\u00e9 m\u00edsto v m\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b. L\u00edb\u00ed se mi hodn\u011b. Nejen pro tyto speci\u00e1ln\u00ed ud\u00e1losti jako je rozlu\u010dka se svobodou a porod. Je kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 m\u00edt n\u011bjak\u00e9&nbsp;osobn\u00ed a rodinn\u00e9 ritu\u00e1ly. Vn\u00edm\u00e1m, \u017ee n\u00e1m pak tolik ty roky \u017eivota neproklouz\u00e1v\u00e1j\u00ed mezi prsty a \u017eijeme v\u00edc na plno. V p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00e9m okam\u017eiku. 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Poskytlo mi pr\u00e1v\u011b rodinn\u00fdmi ritu\u00e1ly pro\u0161pikovanou knihu\u00a0Tradin\u00e1\u0159, kter\u00e1 je velmi inspirativn\u00ed a \u010derp\u00e1m z n\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u011bs\u00edc.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":240,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-239","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-pro-zeny","category-ruzne"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/239","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=239"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/239\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":308,"href":"https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/239\/revisions\/308"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/240"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=239"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=239"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.propojena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=239"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}